my birthday card from the family reads like this
From Mummy: 23 is still a good age to be young!!
And from Daddy: 23 is a good age to hitch up with someone though you need not be married to that someone at this moment.
And from ah mui: 23 is a good age to be BIG Sister!!
You'll note of course that my mother doesn't say anything at all, because my DAD is the one who's speaking for the 2 of them but my mum is playing good cop, and my sister is simply making one of her evil jokes at how fat I am.